Saturday 31 October 2015

Emotional cycles - by Meir Stolear

Your thoughts and beliefs are automatically activated by the external conditions that you are. Your thoughts and beliefs are enabling your feelings, which guide your actions. When your thoughts and beliefs are not synchronised well with your environment, it may trigger a great stressful experience inside you. Not undoing your stresses is most likely to trigger emotional problems for you, which in turns will activate a self-defeating behaviour. If this cycle has not stopped, you may find that you are developing emotional problems, such as depression, anxiety, anger, shame and more. 

You may consider the idea of provision of emotional problems, by attending few CBT/REBT sessions, as from my long clinical experiences, prevention are a better strategy in life than cure. For more information visit www.cbtcare.com

Monday 5 October 2015

Human range of emotional - behavioural conditions and REBT/CBT practice.

Human range of emotional - behavioural conditions and REBT/CBT practice. 

Over 23 years of providing psychological services to a large range of emotional and behavioural problems, it has never failed me to see how so many of my clients believe that their problems are medical problems. As many argue this point before me, I don't tend to agree that much of so call emotional disorders are results of some form of medical problems and in need of medical intervention. For example, it is historically documented that human kind can get oneself into unhealthy negative emotions such as depression anxiety, anger and more. Such feelings will lead any person to act in a self-defeating ways and that what I mean by human range ability. However,  does it means that the when a person reached his or her out most negative range, the causes are biological one and. Therefore, he or she need to be treated with medications?

I argue that human ability to think and understand oneself, other people and the world around him/her is a complex one. So complex that many things can go wrong when a flow of information gets into a messy cognitive processing.  Many philosophers, psychologists, sociologists and other human scientists do their utmost to understand where cognitively things may go wrong and why they are going wrong, but there is no clear one answer to all of that. Maybe because no one mind entirely processes information in the same way as the other. Nor do I believe that all thoughts create emotions and behaviour in total uninformed ways.

Many individual scientists, theorists and clinicians accept that by and large people may fall into the so call unhealthy negative emotions such depression, anxiety, etc. due to irrational and very hard ways of processing information (i.e. cognitive processing). Why is that occurring? We have no one answer, and we may never have one answer to such complex questions.

Is not that I don't recommend that people will ask to see a medical doctor when they are acting in a self-defeating style and in danger of hurting themselves or other people. In fact, I do recommends that they should see a specialist first, as medication and hospitalization as a more efficient form of crisis intervention than talking therapies.  However, as a long-term solution I do believe that learning to resume emotional and behavioural responsibility is the way forward, and that can be achieved by attending some form of talking therapies. I personally recommend REBT/CBT therapy, as it is much more cost efficient and it is teaching good self-help management skills.